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Is there a cure for premature ejaculation?

Statistics show a staggering number of us will face PE. Are effective treatments (or a cure) for PE a thing?

Written by
Luke Benedictus
Medically reviewed by
Dr Matthew Vickers
Last updated
April 23, 2024
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Is there a cure for premature ejaculation?
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Maths problems, football team line-ups and “Paddington Bear eating a marmalade sandwich" are just some of the things mentioned by men in a British newspaper when asked what they thought about to try and delay ejaculation [1].

The idea behind this tactic is mental distraction. You cast your mind into an area that’s as non-sexual as possible in the hope that it’ll help you last a bit longer in bed.

Sure, it can prove a bit of a mood-killer, but that’s also kind of the whole point. But, it's not the most effective way to treat premature ejaculation.

Men are willing to try anything because arriving too fast at the point of no return can prove devastating for their all-round confidence. The (incorrectly) stereotyped characteristic of male sexual prowess is, after all, largely focused on notions of "strength" and "control".

Premature ejaculation represents the exact opposite. So, what actually works to treat it?

What is premature ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation is a type of male sexual dysfunction and The International Society for Sexual Medicine defines it as a condition “characterised by ejaculation which always or nearly always occurs prior to or within about 1 minute of vaginal penetration” [2].

But this dismal scenario is familiar to a significant proportion of men. In fact, the Mayo Clinic estimates that as many as 1 in 3 experience this problem at some point in life [3].

The good news is that there’s real hope for PE sufferers as effective forms of treatment do exist.

“The main thing when I see patients about this issue in my day-to-day GP practice is trying to initially establish what the underlying cause is, and also to categorise what kind of premature ejaculation they actually have,” says Dr Matt Vickers.

The types of premature ejaculation

There are 2 primary forms of the problem, he explains.

Primary or lifelong premature ejaculation is when a man has always experienced the issue ever since he first became sexually active. It’s believed this often stems from some form of disconnection between the brain and the nerves relating to the penis.

“So what happens is the man ends up with the inability to control when they want to ejaculate,” Dr Vickers says.

The second type is acquired premature ejaculation, where the man suddenly develops the problem. This can regularly occur with men who are struggling to achieve or maintain an erection.

When they do manage to get it up, their brain is keen to seize the potentially fleeting opportunity while it can as Dr Vickers explains: “The natural goal of sexual activity is to ejaculate for reproduction.”

Either way, it’s vital to establish what form you’re struggling with because that will ultimately determine your treatment of premature ejaculation.

From here comes treatment and there are medical treatment options for premature ejaculation, which a Pilot practitioner can create for you based on your individual circumstances. With daily and on-demand options that are delivered to your door discreetly, you can tackle PE from $1.63 per use.

Ways to treat erectile dysfunction

Cases of secondary PE, on the other hand, often derive from some form of erectile dysfunction. “In younger men, in particular, erectile dysfunction is typically not due to any physical abnormality,” says Dr Vickers. “They’re more often due to confidence and performance anxiety.”

As a result, doctors often use standard ED medication when treating premature ejaculation.

The effectiveness of this treatment means that most erectile problems should improve, resulting in better confidence that, in turn, will help alleviate the PE.

Lifestyle solutions

A doctor may decide that no clinical treatment is necessary.

“It's also important to look at other causes of ED, such as increased weight, smoking, excessive alcohol use or lack of exercise,” Dr Vickers says.

“Sometimes treatment may involve no medical programs at all, just recommended lifestyle changes like stopping smoking, or exercising more.”

Alternatively, your GP may suggest that seeing a therapist is a better course of action. Some psychologists specifically offer sex therapy or couples’ counselling to work through relationship issues that may be having a diminishing impact on sex and intimacy.

Work your Kegels

Once your underlying issue is being tackled, you can supplement the treatment with additional forms of behavioural exercises. One option is to do Kegel exercises, or pelvic floor exercises, which work out your pubococcygeal muscles [4].

To get an idea of what these muscles feel like when they're engaged, try cutting off the flow of urine the next time you're taking a leak.

By regularly tightening and holding these muscles you can strengthen your pelvic floor, which can have a positive effect on PE. In one study, 82% of sufferers who underwent a 12-week training program for their pelvic floor muscles found they “gained control of their ejaculatory reflex”.

Experiment with edging

Another option that Dr Vickers suggests is to practise “edging”, a technique that can help you train your brain and body in order to make sex last longer.

Essentially this involves training yourself to get very close to orgasm and then stopping until you’ve got your excitement under control. Then you go again.

“By repeatedly doing that you can train yourself to continually delay, and delay, and delay ejaculation,” Dr Vickers says.

Some people also experiment with using topical anaesthetic sprays, wipes, or creams. One small study found that applying wipes covered in benzocaine, a mild anaesthetic, can help you last longer in bed.

“Some of these over-the-counter treatments can work reasonably well and lots of men get good responses with them,” Dr Vickers says.

Just bear in mind, he adds, that these anaesthetic products can also numb your sexual partner down there, so good communication is essential if you’re planning to try them out.

Talk to a doctor

There’s no doubt that premature ejaculation can prove deeply frustrating and embarrassing. But you don’t have to suffer in silence. There are medical professionals who can give you the help you need.

Backed by years of medical research, Pilot's premature ejaculation treatment is trusted by real health professionals. Simply take our online consult with an Aussie practitioner and they will create a treatment plan that is designed around your situation, sexual activity and lifestyle..

If this isn't for you, The Last Longer Program is our best-selling behavioural treatment and it includes everything you need to master ejaculation control, including 10+ hours of training techniques from sexual health experts. It addresses the psychological factors and habits of premature ejaculation, teaching you how to last longer, without medication, in just 4 weeks.

Remember, there's no shame in reaching out for help with PE.

Photo Credit: Getty Images / Amelia Hanigan

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