Many people emotionally eat, which means they eat for reasons other than hunger. Food can be comforting, which is why it can be used in situations where hunger isn’t a factor.
Signs of emotional eating include eating because you’re sad, depressed, stressed, bored or lonely and using food as a reward.
Food can be used as a means of soothing and distracting oneself from what is really bothering them.
And, when we eat to soothe feelings while also trying to lose weight, this begins a cycle of guilt and shame that pushes us further into a negative space.
There are ways to manage emotional eating and you can make changes to the way you respond to certain feelings so it doesn’t result in automatically reaching for food. Here’s where to start.
#1 Check in with your hunger
Is the hunger physical or emotional?
An emotional food craving usually hits when there is a desire to remove a feeling by eating something specific — like chocolate. If you just ate a few hours ago and don't have a rumbling stomach, you're probably not hungry.
There are two types of hunger that you commonly experience.
- Physical Hunger: Builds up over time, felt in your belly e.g rumbling.
- Emotional Hunger: Comes on quickly with a strong fixation on a particular food.
Try to check in with yourself regularly and monitor whether you’re experiencing physical or emotional hunger. This will help you manage your hunger levels and make a conscious choice to only engage with physical hunger versus emotional hunger.
#2 Keep a food diary
A food diary is a handy tool when trying to identify your habits around food.
Learning your patterns of behaviour and the connection you have between your food intake, mood and situation is helpful so you can understand what type of hunger you’re experiencing.
Things to include in your diary can include:
- How much you are eating?
- How hungry were you?
- How were you feeling?
- What was happening at the time?
- Where were you?
#3 Check in with your environment
If you know that there is a food that you choose in stressful moments, try not to keep it in your house or add it to your shopping trolley.
While enjoying all kinds of food in moderation is recommended, it can be difficult when you’re actively trying to lose weight.
For the time being, avoid purchasing the foods you eat when feeling emotional and pay attention to your behaviour in times of stress.
For example, do you notice that you tend to pull into the drive-through when you’re having a rough day? When this happens, do your best to ignore the temptation and drive right past it.
#4 Before eating, ask yourself a few questions
Instead of diving straight into a meal at the first feeling of hunger, it can be helpful to ask yourself a few questions to deduce what style of hunger you’re experiencing.
These questions could include:
Are you angry?
Deal with the issue if you can or give yourself some time away from the situation. Step outside, call a friend or take some deep breaths.
Are you lonely?
You’re more likely to engage in emotional eating if you lack a good support network. Reach out to friends, family or colleagues.
Are you tired or thirsty?
Check your sleep habits — how much have you had? Are you thirsty? When did you last drink some water?
Are you bored?
Distraction is key! Instead of snacking when you’re not hungry, distract yourself and substitute with a healthier behaviour.
Are you stressed or sad?
If you are feeling stressed, try some stress management techniques. If you are sad, be kind to yourself and reach out to someone.
Are you hungry?
If you are, then it's time to eat! Choose low GI and high protein meals as they help you feel fuller for longer, leading to fewer cravings and hunger signals.
#5 Reframe your thoughts
If you have a moment of emotional eating, practice forgiveness and kindness towards yourself and start fresh the next day. Take this as a learning experience and work on implementing strategies to prevent this in future.
Here are some techniques to help you gain a more helpful perspective on your situation. Try writing these things down:
- Identify the situation that led to the emotional eating.
- How did you feel and what were you thinking at the time?
- How did you feel after the emotional eating?
- Is there a more positive way of seeing the situation? What can you do that is more helpful for the future?
#6 Try something new
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When to seek help from a professional?
If you have tried many self-guided help options and you are still struggling with emotional eating, consider reaching out to a professional.
Seeking professional support can help you gain an understanding of your situation and learn coping skills and get the care you need.
For those needing further support for emotional eating on their weight loss journey, you might want to consider Pilot’s Metabolic Reset Program.
Our program introduces clinically-proven hunger regulating medications and combines them with a health coach so you can learn about your body while also losing a substantial portion of your body weight.
According to a 2020 study from the International Journal of Obesity, patients using this breakthrough medication lost 12.1 per cent of their body in 52 weeks, combined with behavioural changes (nearly twice as much versus behavioural changes alone).
Plus, you have the support of a health coach so you can always reach out when needed. Take the online assessment today and see if you’re eligible for this modern, medical way to kickstart weight loss.
If you or someone you know needs help with emotional eating, reach out to the Butterfly Foundation.
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